This is a reader-submitted story.
1. My diagnosis is: Chronic Migraine w/ Chronic Daily Headache
2. My migraine attack frequency is: almost daily at varying levels
3. I was diagnosed in: Fall 2010
4. My comorbid conditions include: n/a
5. I take 4 medications/supplements each day for prevention and 2-4 medications/supplements to treat an acute attack
6. My first migraine attack was: December 2005
7. My most disabling migraine symptoms are: nausea, weakness, fatigue, intense pain
8. My strangest migraine symptoms are: confusion, memory loss (rare)
9. My biggest migraine triggers are: lack of sleep, light, sound, noise, being too busy, socializing in large groups, stress
10. I know a migraine attack is coming on when: I feel cold, get tired, feel the start of a worsening “sinus” type headache
11. The most frustrating part about having a migraine attack is: not being able to do what I want to do
12. During a migraine attack, I worry most about: missing time w/ my husband & toddler son
13. When I think about migraine between attacks, I think: When will it start? Can I do X,Y,Z and keep it at bay?
14. When I tell someone I have migraine, the response is usually: Either I’ve experienced them & they stink or I know someone who has them & they stink
15. When someone tells me they have migraine, I think: Welcome to my Life
16. When I see commercials about migraine treatments, I think: If only it worked for me (that’s you I’m talking to BOTOX)
17. My best coping tools are: limiting activities, lots of rest, caffeine in moderation
18. I find comfort in: Knowing it could always be worse
19. I get angry when people say: “You know what you should try…” (I KNOW they mean well, but unless you’ve walked in my shoes phrase it as a question because chances are I’ve tried it)
20. I like it when people say: I understand….even if they don’t, it’s nice to hear it.
21. Something kind someone can do for me during a migraine attack is: Be understanding (my husband is great about taking on whatever I started or am doing so I can go lay down, be it just watching our son or finishing dinner or the laundry)
22. The best thing(s) a doctor has ever said to me about migraine is: In reference to the current CGRP trials, “I hope it puts us out of business.”
23. The hardest thing to accept about having migraine is: I may never get better & so this modified life I am living may be my new life forever (although I never lose hope)
24. Migraine has taught me: to accept life for what it is & be thankful & joyful in the little things.
25. The quotation, motto, mantra, or scripture that gets me through an attack is: I just remind myself that I always get through it & good days/hours are ahead
26. If I could go back to the early days of my diagnosis, I would tell myself: Stop looking for a cure and begin to modify your life
27. The people who support me most are: I have a very supportive network, but my husband is always supportive and my BFF is always a text away to just listen to me vent/complain
28. The thing I most wish people understood about migraine is: There is no cure and what works for one person may not work for another person
29. Migraine and Headache Awareness Month is important to me because: This is my life
30. One more thing I’d like to say about life with migraine is: It’s still possible to live…if you have it, never give up hope and take joy in the simple things. My life looks a lot different than it did just 5 short years ago, but I’m still enjoying every minute possible.
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