This is a reader-submitted story.
1. My diagnosis is:Chronic Migraine
2. My migraine attack frequency is: 1-3 times per week
3. I was diagnosed in: 2004
4. My comorbid conditions include: fibromyalgia, depression
5. I take ____ medications/supplements each day for prevention and ____ medications/supplements to treat an acute attack 3 medications/supplements for prevention, 3 medications for an acute attack
6. My first migraine attack was: in high school
7. My most disabling migraine symptoms are: pain and nausea
8. My strangest migraine symptoms are: olfactory hallucinations
9. My biggest migraine triggers are: weather
10. I know a migraine attack is coming on when: I become very irritable
11. The most frustrating part about having a migraine attack is: how it interrupts my life.
12. During a migraine attack, I worry most about: whether or not I’ll start vomiting.
13. When I think about migraine between attacks, I think: how disruptive it is to life
14. When I tell someone I have migraine, the response is usually: “have they figured out what causes it?”
15. When someone tells me they have migraine, I think: “I’m so sorry”
16. When I see commercials about migraine treatments, I think: “I wished that worked for me”
17. My best coping tools are: sleep, knitting
18. I find comfort in: my family, faith, knitting
19. I get angry when people say: “You’d think they’d be able to find a cure with you being a doctor and all” (Like the medical community saves the good treatments for the doctors!)
20. I like it when people say: “I’m so sorry. What can I do to help?”
21. Something kind someone can do for me during a migraine attack is: Let me rest
22. The best thing(s) a doctor has ever said to me about migraine is: “Your pain is real. I believe you.”
23. The hardest thing to accept about having migraine is: There is no cure.
24. Migraine has taught me:I can’t do everything I want to. And that’s OK.
25. The quotation, motto, mantra, or scripture that gets me through an attack is: John 16:33 “In this world you will have trouble, but take heart, I have overcome the world.”
26. If I could go back to the early days of my diagnosis, I would tell myself: “You’re going to be OK. Your identity is not in your profession. Learn to be gentle with yourself.”
27. The people who support me most are: my husband and children.
28. The thing I most wish people understood about migraine is: it is more than a headache. Chronic migraine is a real chronic illness.
29. Migraine and Headache Awareness Month is important to me because: the more people that understand this illness, the more that they will understand their friends and family with migraine. The more that people understand that this is a chronic illness, the more that people with chronic headache will see a medical provider about their own illness instead of thinking “It’s just a headache”.
30. One more thing I’d like to say about life with migraine is: “Chronic migraine is a real disease. We need to learn more about it to develop better prevention and treatment. People with chronic migraine are truly ill and want to be understood, not pitied.”
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